Hubby and I had another power struggle moment this morning, and guess what?
He won.
Again.
Have I mentioned how much I like it when he wins our little battles of wills?
I know, it’s kind of silly. I am a strong willed, intelligent woman. I will not let myself be bullied. But for some reason, I like the power struggles my husband and I have, especially when he stands up to me. He exudes his manly strength, and I try to put up a fight, and eventually swoon.
We were outside, discussing the junk under our porch. Since we are having our daughter’s birthday party next weekend at our house, it became very necessary to get rid of all that crap.
I was adament that all that stuff would not fit in our garbage can.
He was firm in telling me that he would take charge of the garbage can, and all things garbage related.
I may have pouted a little at this point, and stomped my foot (just a little bit), when I whined that I would not be able to get any garbage from the house into the can, if he filled it up with his nasty garbage. (Can you picture it? I am the poster child for petulant glares)
He took me into his arms, and looked me dead in the eye, and said,
“I am in charge of the garbage. You will not have to worry about it. DO YOU UNDERSTAND?”
OMG, that nice little feeling of warmth spread through my whole body.
“Yes, Sir,” I said quietly, and wrapped my arms around him.
Then he reminded me that even though I felt the need to control the situation, I would have to try to relinquish and trust him.
I have not felt this submissive in a while.
Or this turned on. π
I can’t wait for our next little battle.
Never thought a post about garbage would make me smile so – or give me little tiny goosebumps. It was the ‘yes, Sir’ as you know how I like thatβ¦.
LOL, who woulda thunk, eh?
I had to look around right after I said it, to make sure no one had heard me.
Maybe I’m not as comfortable with submission as I thought?
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Thx!
I’m a feminist, but I always maintain that garbage is a “blue” job! So glad you got dominated! π
Egads, Renee, I thought you wrote something else.
Blue, got it.
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Yes, it was a very nice feeling too π
I don’t do garbage. Nuh-uh never. Don’t fight it!
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Good point, Sophie. π
LOL, I am keeping the lawn mowing though. It’s not icky, and is great exercise π
unlike garbage duty
miss ya’
Ooh sexy! That would have turned me on too. Anytime my husband tells me he will worry about something so I won’t have to it’s pretty hot. But I am sad to say I probably take the garbage out more than he does, LOL. (He probably cooks more than I do though, so there’s a trade off.)
LOL, i’ll take the garbage over cooking. Amen to that! nobody likes my cooking.
My 7 yr old has decided that she is a vegetarian.
hmmmmm?
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Sounds hot to me. Who would of thought that we would ever think a man telling us that they would deal with the garbage would be hot. π
Totally!
Anything can be made hot, when said with a little bit of yummy testosterone
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