I’m making excellent progress on the new book, and am getting soooooo excited to send this to my beta readers! Which means I am still laying low for the rest of the week. Then I have been promised access to my beloved Facebook and blog. mmmm, my prrrrrrecious. ;)
For now, I have another really awesome friend stopping by. Renee Rose is taking over my blog for the day to talk about “edging” or orgasm control. (This is so hot!) Thanks for stopping by. <3
Take it away, Renee :)
Renee Rose’s First Experience with Edging
by Renee Rose
I came to the realization a year or two ago that I’m always waiting, during sex for the green light to orgasm. I think biologically it makes sense. As a female, I am the receptor, so my orgasm should come just after his for the best chances of conception. (It took me several years of trying to conceive, so believe me, I studied up on doing everything exactly right).
Since I apparently am naturally giving control to my husband for when I orgasm, I told him I thought it would be fun if we played with edging or orgasm denial. I told him a couple times, and he sort of filed it away for later.
Recently, he took me over the arm of the sofa for an afternoon session (we do our best work while the kids are at school). He spanked me and then he entered me from behind. And then he walked away without either of us getting off.
May I just tell you that I did not find it the least bit sexy? I found it infuriating. All that sexual energy turned to frustration in about five seconds flat. I was stomping around the house like a grouchy bear. It wasn’t an exciting form of domination, as far I was concerned. I wasn’t even sure if I was going to be allowed to get off, period.
The reward did come later. I can’t remember exactly– I think it was only an hour or two, but it seemed like forever. My husband re-emerged from whatever task he’d been doing, taking me this time bent over the bed and….oh yeah. It was good. The wait did heighten the orgasmic experience. I went from bitter to butter (the melty kind) immediately.
According to wikipedia, Orgasm control, also referred to as edging, peaking, or surfing, is a sexual technique which may be practiced either alone or with a partner and involves the maintenance of a high level of sexual arousal for an extended period of time without reaching orgasm. Since orgasm control prolongs the experience of powerful sexual sensations occurring during the final build-up to orgasm, the physical demands of being kept or keeping oneself in this highly excited state for an extended time can induce a pleasurable, almost euphoric state, and at times creates changes within an individual’s perceived consciousness.
Orgasm control can involve either sex partner being in control of the other partner’s orgasm, or a person delaying their own orgasm during sexual activity with a partner or by masturbation. To experience orgasm control, any method of sexual stimulation can be used.
In The Knight’s Seduction, Sir Barrett’s new wife suffered an early trauma with a man, and is terrified to have sex with him. He strikes a deal with her that sets into motion a beautiful execution of extended edging. Here’s how it all begins:
“Daisy, I propose we make a bargain.”
She looked wary.
“I give you my word, I will not couple with you. Not until you ask—nay, beg me to.” And he did intend to make her beg. Bringing a lover to the edge while denying her release would have her on her knees eventually.
She made a scoffing sound. “I’m quite certain I would die first.”
“Aye,” he said, “You have proven your willingness to die. But wait—I have not finished. You will offer me your body, that I may teach you the pleasure of passion, and that you may learn to pleasure me—all without engaging in the actual act of consummation.”
Her brow furrowed in confusion. “I do not understand.”
“There is more than one way to find pleasure with a woman or a man. I propose to leave out the one that gives you trouble, if you will allow me to teach you the others.”
Her blue-green eyes widened, but the wariness had gone. She studied him, as if measuring the meaning of his words. “Will it hurt?”
He gave a decisive shake of his head. “Never,” he promised. He opened his mouth, ready to launch into a long treatise on pleasure, but she nodded her head.
He hid his surprise. “Yes? You will agree?”
“I know not why, but I do trust you, Sir Barr—I mean, Bear.”
He kissed the top of her head. “I’m honored. There is one more small thing you must promise me.”
“What is it?”
“You will not pleasure yourself. You will only come to me to learn of pleasure.”
She gave a short laugh. “You need not worry about that.”
He lifted a brow. “You do not pleasure yourself?”
She lifted her chest. “Certainly not. Do you?”
You might guess that she does end up trying to pleasure herself, and is punished for it. But here is a little taste of her first pleasure, delivered by Sir Barrett:
He took a bit of butter fat on one finger and slid it between her legs.
She jumped, her legs and torso stiffening, her thighs clamping together.
“Easy, girl. This quim is mine now. I will keep my word, you must keep yours.” He wriggled his finger between her tightened legs. He had asked for lubricant because he feared it may take him some time to coax out a response, but he found her folds slick and plump. He nearly groaned at the sweetness of it. “There,” he said, his voice rough. “it’s not so bad, is it?”
“Spread your legs,” he commanded.
She did not move.
He delivered four more slaps to her quivering bottom. “I said, open your legs for me, Daisy.” He waited.
After a moment, her thighs parted, but only by a finger-width.
“More. Spread them.”
“Sir Barrett…” Her voice sounded plaintive.
“Nothing—I don’t know.” Her legs opened a little further.
He smiled. He hoped he’d stoked her fire and she was experiencing the discomfort of sexual tension.
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The Knight’s Seduction by Renee Rose
Avowed to never again yield to a man’s ill-treatment, Lady Daisy stands ready to fight to the death when her castle is sacked. The imposing knight Sir Barrett has other ideas, however, and to her dismay, Daisy soon finds herself not only disarmed, but soundly spanked as well. Sir Barrett takes her as his captive bride, but when she shows real terror at the prospect of consummating their marriage, he offers her a bargain. She will offer her body to him and accept the pleasurable torments he inflicts, but he will not claim her fully until she aches for it so badly she begs him. Certain she will do no such thing, Daisy agrees, but can she resist the knight’s seduction?
Renee Rose / Darling Adams is a naughty author and kinkster who loves writing about hot alpha males, Dominance/submission and power exchanges. Named Eroticon USA’s Next Top Erotic Author in 2013, her books are all centered around kink. She can be found on: